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Principles for living reconciliation meaningfully

June 19, 2017 By Bowen, Conversation, Featured, First Nations 9 Comments

Detail from Richard Shorty’s work “Genesis 1:20-25” 

Wednesday is National Aboriginal Day and ten days later, Canada commemorates its 150th birthday. Since the centenary in 1967 and even since Canada 125 in 1992, the whole enterprise of Canada has become deeply informed by the need for reconciliation between indigenous people and communities, and settler people and communities.

We are all treaty people. Everyone in Canada who has citizenship is also a beneficiary to the treaties that were signed and made as a way of acknowledging and making binding, the relationship between settler communities and indigenous nations.  The ability to own private land, for example, is one way in which settlers benefit from treaties that were signed long ago, even if those treaties were made hundreds of years ago in other parts of the country. Canadian society depends on the ability of governments to provide access to land and resources, and that access flows directly from treaties. Not from conquering and taking. From legally binding agreements.  You are a treaty person.

The promise of Canada has never been properly delivered to indigenous communities. Over decades courts have declared this. The Truth and Reconciliation Commission declared this. The Royal Commission on Aboriginal Peoples declared this.  It is evident in data and research and popular culture.

The need for reconciliation is long overdue.

For thirty years I have worked in this space, and lately I have been working with a small set of principles, when settlers ask me about reconciliation.  Here they are:

  1. Reconciliation requires restitution. For reconciliation to be real it must be accompanied by restitution. Reconciliation efforts aimed at increasing awareness are fine, but they should have a direct and material benefit to indigenous people and communities,  When indigenous communities do well, we all do well.  Restitution can happen in all kinds of ways including the return of lands and property, but it also requires the honouring of the ongoing relationships embedded in the treaties in which mutual benefit was supposed to flow for the future.
  2. Reconciliation is unsettling.  My friend Michelle Nahanee talks about “emotional equity” which is one way of thinking about what it costs for indigenous people to interact in non-indigenous contexts. It is inherently unsettling. For non-indigenous people a true commitment to reconciliation means unsettling notions of what you take for granted. Just understanding how you are a treaty beneficiary is one way to suddenly become unsettled. And I have often said that the only job for settlers in reconciliation is to be unsettled. It is from that place that we can all meet and work on a different set of ideas than colonization.
  3. Settlers need to make the first move.  Still with the idea of emotional equity, it is important that settlers make the first move in a reconciliation initiative. Indigenous people cannot be expected to be the ones to make it easy for everyone to do reconciliation. Settlers must make the first moves, and must do so in all the vulnerability and fear that comes from making the first move.  Do something, do it badly, be open to learning and keep going.
  4. Reconciliation is a verb.  The right term is “reconciling” because we aren’t ever going to acheive a place wher ethe world is reconciled. It is an ongoing project. If the project of the last 150 years was about creating a Canada where there were once only dozens of nations, perhaps the project of the next 150 years should be about figuring out how to make a country possible that reconciles the interests, duties and obligations of it’s history and privilege with the results of the colonization that enabled that privilege. There is no certain answer, but I have faith that together we can create a place that is better than either of us can do separately.
  5. Its about relationship. The reason why Canada has to confront the horrible legacy of colonization is that Canadians entered into and then promptly forgot the nature of the relationships that were set in place by the laws and policies of 1763. In that year King George proclaimed that nations west of the Atlantic watershed needed to be dealt with as nations, and according to the rule of law. That proclamation, recognizing the importance of relationship over domination, became the basis for all Aboriginal law in Canada and is still to this day the standard upon which adherence to the rule of law is applied. All Canadians are born or move into a relationship with indigenous people and the relationship is direct, personal and beneficial.  Reconciliation needs to restore this sense of mutual dependancy and correct the balance.

I will be hosting conversations on reconciliation at Canada Day commemorations on (Nexwlelexwem) Bowen Island this year with my friend Pauline Le Bel, who is running a series of interesting events this year called “Knowing Our Place” about the relationship of Bowen Islanders to the Skwxwu7mesh Nation and to our At’lkitsem (Howe Sound). If you’re on Bowen, join us. If not, host your own and think about why reconciliation matters to you.

Seven by seven

June 14, 2017 By Being 7 Comments

Yesterday I passed through the start line again. Forty nine times I have rode this incredible planet around the sun, corkscrewing together through space. Last night I sat by a small fire with a small glass of whiskey in my hand, friends and family around me and we just hung out, enjoying each other’s company, listening to a little Stephen Fearing and John Wort Hannam and eating fresh strawberries.

The last half dozen years of more have been really illuminating in terms of my own professional life. I have moved from the place of a pure practitioner to a professional who is trying hard to ground practice in theory, and theory that is based in cognitive science, pedagogy and complexity.  When you dive into those worlds I think there comes an extended moment of despair or worry that nothing really matters, or nothing makes a difference. I have been there and I am probably still there, but I’m feeling my way into something new, something more existentially rich

Yesterday on a call with friends to discuss an upcoming Art of Hosting in Amsterdam in the fall, I used an image to talk about why I feel like “social innovation” is bit of an inaccurate term to explain what we are doing.  I argued that we were learning to live with “social evolution” and that as individuals we have choices about how to deal with the fact that our evolving world demands that we all learn new things.  Not learning is not an option. Even those among us that are bed-bound use cell phones and iPads. This was not something they ever imagined in the 1930s when they were teenagers.

So the image is this: when I visit Amsterdam perhaps I will take a vial of water from the Pacific ocean to connect us. I may stand beside a canal or on the shore of the English Channel and drop that small amount of water into the sea. And to the oceans, this act means nothing and is even beyond any practical scope of measurement. But to me, there is a deeper meaning attached to it. It is important. It is interesting. It connect me to my friends, acknowledges a bond. It helps me under the existential questions that come with the beginning of the 50th trip around the sun.

Recently I’ve been accompanying clients who are trying hard to measure the impact they are making in the world. I can’t let them suffer any longer. I have to step in and say “you can’t measure it. Rather, just keep doing it. Do it because it feels right, and it is good, and watch what you are doing and do more of the things that align with your sense of goodness and rightness. We have no idea what the effect is, so be present to your work, be diligent and disciplined. Make it worthy and worthwhile, and worth doing. Succeed or fail, your time on the earth is yours to use as you can. Be present to need, offer what you can, and allow the world to evolve.”

Of course I can go down a strategic and theoretical rabbit hole with this, but none of that should dissuade people from adopting a simple approach to their work, not too precious, not too cavalier.  Just enough to give their work and life meaning, and to pursue goodness as you can.

A friend tells me that 49 is a good number. It is seven by seven and in many sacred traditions including my own, that number stands for the countless generations. Each of us is a product is of the 128 pairs of humans that gathered in a virtual circle 150 or 200 years ago, and had a hand in creating six more generations of humans that ultimately culminated in you.  No one knew what they were doing. They weren’t trying to give you the gift of life and a scant few decades on this earth. Some of them barely survived long enough to contribute to the project. They didn’t know each other, didn’t even know that the other’s existed. Probably may of them would be disgusted at the thought that they would be participating in project with others of a certain race, culture or religion to create a living human being.

Now is a good time to be humble about what we are doing. Work and live. Help out and get out of the way.

Build a fire, hum a tune, listen to stories.

Understanding vision

June 7, 2017 By Art of Hosting, Emergence, Facilitation, Featured 4 Comments

“Vision” is one of those words that is overused in our work and the reason it is so elusive is that is is so context dependant.

You can have a vision of a full bath tub of steaming hot water. You can have a vision of making your home run on rain water alone. You can have a vision of safe drinking water for all humans.

The first is simple, short term and you have all the tools and abilities to make it happen.

The second is more complicated and you require a few experts to make it happen, but with the right people and resources, you can achieve it.

The third is not up to you. It is a complex and adaptive system. You may be motivated by a desire to see safe drinking water for all humans but you are unlikely to achieve it because it is a complex problem. Intention can make a difference here and instead of working TOWARDS a tangible vision you can work FROM an intention and guide your actions against that.

The problem comes when people want tangible outcomes from linear processes. “We need a vision of our future” can sometimes lead to work that ignores all the opportunities and threats that come up in a living and evolving system. Without good methods of understanding what is happening, what a system is inclined to do, or iterating work based on learning (in other words developmental evaluation), in my experience those with power and a mandate to accomplish something will eventually narrow the work down to mere deliverables. The vision maybe in there somewhere but the context renders it useless.

So these days when a client asks me for a vision I want to know why and whether they have the means and desire to actually achieve it, or whether they are simply calling for a conversation on “what we’re all trying to do” so that work and opportunities can be evaluated against that.

At some level, in complex systems, vision and purpose become moral centres and ethical guidelines and not targets. That seems important to me.

Desire lines for strategy and change

June 2, 2017 By Art of Hosting, Culture, Design, Featured, Learning One Comment

 

I think that doing strategic work with organizations and communities is really about learning. If a group is trying to confront newness and changes in its environment and needs to come up with new strategies to address those changes, then it needs to learn.

I love the term “desire lines.” Most of my initial work with organizations tries to get at the desire lines in the organization; the patterns embedded in the culture that help or hinder change and resilience. Naming and making visible these entrained desire lines (including the ones that that group takes into the darkness of conflict and unresourcefulness) is a helpful exercise in beginning to first reflect and then disrupt and develop capacity. When a group can see their patterns, and see which are helpful and which are not, they can make the choice to develop new ones or strengthen the stuff that works.

When  problems are complex, then the people in the group need to focus on learning strategies in order to discover and try new things, rather than adopt a best practice from elsewhere.  It is, as Steve Wheeler says in this video, the difference between designed environments and personal choice:

“Students will always find their own unique pathways for learning. They will always choose their own personal tools and technologies. Our job is not to try and create pathways for them, but to help them create the pathways for themselves and the scaffold and support them as they go through those pathways.”

Hosting groups is always about learning – in fact one core question of the Art of Hosting community is “what if learning was the form of leadership required now?” To support learning, help groups find the desire lines for learning and good strategic work to address change that is owned by the group will follow.  That is how learning builds capacity and capacity builds sustainability.

Canada’s shadow

May 23, 2017 By Being, First Nations 2 Comments

An incident in Red Deer this week has made visible some of the deep seated xenophobia that exists just under the surface in Canada.

While we are known as a country of tolerance and peace, and we largely are, there is a longstanding thread that runs through our history and right into our present that claims a kind of Eurocentric supremacy, and it has its impact against immigrants, indigenous people and people of colour who were born here.

In the Red Deer story a group of high school kids are punished for fighting, in an incident that involved Syrian refugee kids and others.  The response was a protest against the Syrian kids, because some people believed that the Syrian kids were getting different punishment for their role in the fight.  That wasn’t true.

However that did not stop some of the more seedy xenophobes and dogwhistle racists from getting their voices heard on the matter, and the Euro-centric white supremacy thread again surfaced. Consider this quote from Steven Garvey who organizes against Muslims:

“Who we are as a people, as a country, as a heritage, it’s all getting pushed aside and if we don’t stand up for us as a people, as our country, we’re going to lose it,” Garvey said. “We welcome people coming to our country, but they have to integrate into our society. It’s not about accommodating their values.

“It’s about standing up for Canadians, our freedoms, our civil rights and our liberties. And some of these cultures that are coming are incompatible with our own.”

Garvey’s voice is not at all unusual, and the sentiment is not at all uncommon. Many non-indigenous Canadians, if you ask them, will tell you that immigrants should integrate into their idea of society, and that we should not accommodate their values, and that our own laws and cultural practices should be respected, as if this has been going on from time immemorial on this continent.

And of course this begs two questions. First is, where were you from 1500 until now? Because without having done exactly this to the tens of millions of indigenous people here, there would be no basis for a man of immigrant European heritage to claim that his particular set of values is “Canadian” and therefore supreme in this place.

The second question is “which values?” which is a question that Kellie Leitch has spun into a dog whistle political campaign to attract racists and xenophobes to her leadership bid for the Conservative Party. Those that voted for her are now members of that party, and despite the results of the leadership race, they will remain members of that party unless they quit.

The question of “which values?” is totally confounding in a country as big and diverse as Canada.  We have a Constitution, and that’s as close as it gets to a collective expression of values.  The Constitution dictates the legality of our laws. Break the law, you’ll be punished by the courts. So we already have a mechanism for doing what Garvey says we should be doing.

Except he’s not saying that our current rule of law is good enough. He and others like him want to pick and choose what Constitutional rights apply. For example, he wants to exercise unfettered freedom of speech but he would like a limit of the freedom of religion – his organization is called the Worldwide Coalition Against Islam, after all. I suspect that he values the ability to freely associate or have access to equality before the law, but I’ll bet he quibbles with the protection of Aboriginal rights as defined by the Royal Proclamation of 1763.  All of those rights are equally protected in our Charter of Rights and Freedoms. Justice demands that Canadians uphold and live by this Charter, something we’re not always very good at.

So what does he really want?  Garvey’s ideas – that are readily shared by many with the merest of prompting across this country – are not fundamentally Canadian. They are not compatible with our Constitution or the laws we have set in place to help everyone who lives here get along.

Worse they are a perfect example of the ongoing imposition of a colonial mindset on the Canadian psyche.  Canada is not a “nation-state.”  this is not a country that is composed of a single nation of people with a shared history, language and set of values and standards. There are many many expressions of what it means to be Canadian and they are allowed within the framework of the laws we have made to try to balance rights and responsibilities. The shadow of the colonial violence that sought to erase indigenous cultures and laws is that the colonizers somehow became the victims. It isn’t true. Colonization still proceeds apace, and Euro-centric racism and xenophobia drives the seedier parts of the civic conversation on immigration policy.

Bigots like Garvey should not be left unchallenged as long as news outlets like the CBC see fit to give his ideas daylight.

It is both our right to do so, and our responsibility.