{"id":766,"date":"2005-07-29T23:06:00","date_gmt":"2005-07-30T07:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chriscorrigan.com\/blogs\/?p=766"},"modified":"2005-07-29T23:06:00","modified_gmt":"2005-07-30T07:06:00","slug":"creating-safety-in-groups","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/creating-safety-in-groups\/","title":{"rendered":"Creating safety in groups"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It seems often that I am asked by clients to create a safe space, by which I think they mean a safe emotional space (and I&#8217;m never REALLY sure what they mean).  As a facilitator I bristle at this request for a number of reasons, not the least of which is that there is no way I can guarantee that a space will be safe.  The problem has always been how to tell this to a client.  <\/p>\n<p>Yesterday, reading Christina Baldwin&#8217;s excellent &#8220;Calling the Circle&#8221; I got some good language around this question:<\/p>\n<div>No group can prove itself &#8220;safe&#8221; by the definition of one member, it can only prove itself healthy and responsive to the needs of different people over time.&#8221;<\/div>\n<p>That&#8217;s a brilliant encapsulation of what a functional group is doing.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m very much enjoying this book by the way, and I&#8217;ll try to post a few more thoughts triggered by her writing before I take off for Halifax next week.  If you want to learn more about Christina&#8217;s work, visit her site, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.peerspirit.com\/\">PeerSpirit<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It seems often that I am asked by clients to create a safe space, by which I think they mean a safe emotional space (and I&#8217;m never REALLY sure what they mean). As a facilitator I bristle at this request for a number of reasons, not the least of which is that there is no way I can guarantee that a space will be safe. The problem has always been how to tell this to a client. Yesterday, reading Christina Baldwin&#8217;s excellent &#8220;Calling the Circle&#8221; I got some good language around this question: No group can prove itself &#8220;safe&#8221; by &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"_wpas_customize_per_network":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-766","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/piBp1-cm","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/766","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=766"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/766\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=766"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=766"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=766"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}