{"id":3657,"date":"2012-08-09T05:32:54","date_gmt":"2012-08-09T13:32:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/?p=3657"},"modified":"2012-08-09T05:32:54","modified_gmt":"2012-08-09T13:32:54","slug":"how-to-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/how-to-help\/","title":{"rendered":"How to help"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/interactioninstitute.org\/blog\/2012\/08\/09\/buyers-are-liars\/\">Good piece on knowing oneself&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I am more and more compelled by my friend Carol Sanford&#8217;s notion that those of us who strive to be \u201chelpers\u201d\u009d are most of service when we see ourselves as \u201cre-sources,\u201d\u009d agents of helping others re-connect and return to themselves more fully and deeply.  Our tools for this are not \u201cbest practices\u201d\u009d and expert advice, as Carol notes, but observation, inquiry and developmentally-oriented questions, and care-full listening.  These are what help to create more space for discovery.  Our gain is very much mutual.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Good piece on knowing oneself&#8230; I am more and more compelled by my friend Carol Sanford&#8217;s notion that those of us who strive to be \u201chelpers\u201d\u009d are most of service when we see ourselves as \u201cre-sources,\u201d\u009d agents of helping others re-connect and return to themselves more fully and deeply. Our tools for this are not \u201cbest practices\u201d\u009d and expert advice, as Carol notes, but observation, inquiry and developmentally-oriented questions, and care-full listening. These are what help to create more space for discovery. Our gain is very much mutual.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"_wpas_customize_per_network":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3657","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/piBp1-WZ","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3657","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3657"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3657\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3657"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3657"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chriscorrigan.com\/parkinglot\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3657"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}