The Tao of Taekwondo

Notes and reflections from a deeper practice of traditional taekwondo

Monday, February 4, 2008

Our academy philosophy: Patience

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In our dojang, we live by three codes: the tenets of taekwondo, which are largely shared among most Kukki style dojangs, an oath that was written by our sambum's teacher, Master J Sun Choi, and a philosophy that's particular to our own school. This is the first of a series of posts on these philosophical tenets of our community.

Our academy philosophy consists of four simple individual practices: Patience, Love, Respect and Humilty. The first of these is patience.

The first practice ground for patience is with oneself. Once we have learned to be patient with ourselves, we can be patient with others. When we have developed compassion for our own challenges, we can treat others with compassion as well.

In my experience the practice of taekwondo seems to progress in a similar way among many people. When we first begin, we are enthusiastic and we learn fast. The first training session for many people is an amazing experience, where they learn kicks and blocks that are simple to execute and they quickly become aware of their own power, power that they made not have known they even had. As one progresses, and meets more and more complex and difficult techniques, one begins to encounter different challenges. Do you remember your first roundhouse kick? Really understanding that kick took me a full year. Every chance I have to practice it, I continue to do so. There is always more to learn about this most basic of kicks.

As techniques are learned, the student become more and more aware of the finer details of techniques. This can be a frustrating experience. One might work for months at turning the hips over, coordinating arms and legs while kicking, or spinning and maintaining balance. Progress slows and doubt creeps into the student's mind. This is exactly when patience comes into play.

Taekwondo is a physical training. As we learn to do new and different things with our bodies we are doing three things at once: we are learning how to use our muscles and skeletons in new ways so that things become easier, we are growing new connections between brain cells that result in things seeming more natural and our minds are struggling to find clarity so that the technique becomes integrated well. The only way to advance in each of these three areas is to practice. You simply have to do repetitions over and over, listening carefully to instruction, integrating your learning and practicing mindfully and with concentration. If you train well, your mind will experience the um of receiving instruction and the yang of integrating it in practice.

This repetition never ends - this IS what training is. You may execute 50,000 roundhouse kicks in the dojang before you ever have to use one in real life (and pray you never do). Each one of those practice kicks sharpens your ability to draw on that skill when you need it.

Patience is the ability to recognize this, and to settle one's mind into the reality that time, practice and understanding are needed to cultivate technical perfection. You must be patient with yourself. People who aren't used to working with their bodies might expect bodies to learn as fast as minds. It's not possible. We can learn how to read faster than we can learn how to execute a roundhouse kick perfectly. Remember, you are building a body, a brain and a mind together and your spirit needs to be patient with that process.

A patient mind leaves you open for learning and your real progress wil become more apparent to you.

A good patience practice:

Next class, notice that when you are learning something that your body is learning how to do it easier and your brain is working when you feel it coming more naturally. Stop and check that your mind has slowed down to the pace of the body and the brain. Growing new muscle and brain cell connections takes time. Slow your thinking down and be patient with your progress. Notice the little things you are doing. Take a moment at the end of class to meditate and reflect on your progress and identify one very small way you changed.



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